I've been struggling lately with keeping myself interested in the hobby--too much outside influence, too many ideas of how things "should" be that I kept trying to live up to. Having done some hard thinking I've re-envisioned my philosophy and came up with these tips. You may or may not find them useful, but they work for ME personally, so I'll share 'em. What I know is that for me they bring me back to what got me into the hobby in the first place and made it so much fun:
1. Focus on the moment. The finished custom will suck if you don't take the time to make it look and work well as you do it. If you get tired or bored, move on to another piece, or another project. Never force yourself to stay.
2. There's no race to finish. Nobody to compete against, nobody to show up or who will show you up. Everybody's got their own ideas about how something should be, or not. Do your own thing.
3. Don't do a custom just to do it. Do it because you ENJOY doing it.
4. Don't overthink. The best results can easily come from the vaguest notions. Hey, it works with jigsaw puzzles...
5. Try not to reveal too much before a project is done. This creates a sense of obligation that others will want to see the finished project, which in turn creates pressure to complete it, which in turn leads to frustration when things go wrong. It can also lead to bigger issues when the expected praised doesn't match what your mind has imagined.
6. Things WILL go wrong. Treat each one as a puzzle to be solved and don't be afraid to set it aside if you can't figure it out now. Some solutions take time, and there is no wrong solution if it achieves the goal you set for yourself.
7. There is no right or wrong way to do the job, nor right or wrong way for your custom to look. Why can't the Baroness be blonde, or Scarlett be a black woman with huge muscles? It's YOUR freakin' Joeverse!
8. Above all, never, EVER let someone try to "grade" you on your techniques or things you do (unless of course, you're asking for such help). Most people who do this mean well, offering things they feel you can do or should try next, without realizing this can make you feel you have to live up to something that will diminish your enjoyment. When it comes to customizing go at your own pace--you have to answer only to yourself.
9. Above all--remember it's a hobby, and it's supposed to be fun. Never take it so seriously that you lose sight of that--otherwise it becomes a "job".
10. Anything you have on hand can be used for customizing. It's one thing my good friend Cap has shown me, even the most mundane of objects can create the most exciting results with a little imagination and ingenuity.