drbindy wrote:
I've seen plenty of dirty laundry aired on here before, but if you look at the dates on those quoted exchanges, it seems to be Sledge went above and beyond giving a reasonable opportunity to get paid back before posting anything.
Lance is right - this is a feedback section. And it seemed to be related to some dealings from here. What anyone does with the info is up to them, but as with any bad deals, I prefer to know and I appreciate the chance to keep from walking into a bad one.
thats just it...
other than TWO trades I did a few weeks ago, I haven't done ANY transactions since all this crap happened. ONE person here has the right to gripe as His item is still sitting somewhere I cant get to.
Dr. Bindy your point is moot, as I am NOT making a bunch of bad trades, or or bad debts since Pluv brought it up, I have had impeccable trading/ selling/buying reps on EVERY board until this happened, so its not like I'm running off stealing from people. and IF I get a job and rebuild my life, then have something that people want,... suddenly because of a pit of bad luck, you wont want to deal with me? Its Certainly not like im
SOME OTHER PEOPLE who stole, then suddenly disappeared from the joe community. I am here, I am not going anywhere, I will continue to contribute to my joe family, and I will pay back what I owe..
Daniel B.. I have been on this site almost as long.. and not just this site, but EVERY SITE. don't I deserve the same kind of consideration? Ive actually washed people DE-friend me... people who I THOUGHT were my friends and knew me... and didn't even bother to give me the consideration of ASKING me whats up>
the people who dont believe that, or want to just toss me aside.. well.. screw them!
people don't realize that I am in a bad situation, and I have tried and said several times they I plan to make full restitution of everyone and everything I owe, as I have also accepted that I am a prominent person in the joe community.
what Im angry about is:
1) there are definite people who have no intentions of helping me, you, or helping resolve this,.... just gleefully sit back and want to prove I'm a liar... and they are NOT helping the situation. just making it worse,.. and THOSE were the people I told to "F" off on Facebook!
2) people DON'T realize that at this point no one wants to hear about my bad situations, so I stopped posting them. things went from bad to worse, to kinda ok.. to bad again to just dropped in the toilet and flushed.. so YES P-luv, the last thing you saw me post was a good thing....
...it didn't work out. none of it did.
so its not me sitting at home ignoring people. its me feeling bad cause ...well ....I am King of Pain 26, they guy everyone talks to about Joecon or toy fair, or at least respected his opinion, who got an ambassador sash cause he's everyone's friend... and then I watch it all go down the toilet... because my life went to crap.
and yeah, people are saying I need to stop having a pity party and get back up.. and its not that easy, I WANT to pay you back.. cause quite frankly Sledge, you came to me when I needed help the most and helped me... and I was eternally grateful Now I want to pay you back... and I can't.
and THAT'S what you don't understand.
I went to NYCC, not to party and have fun, but to cover it for the Terrordrome,...Same reason why I go to toy fail. Yes it sounds like a lot of fun (unless you try to live off of Walgreens sandwiches for 3 days) but It was WORK. I even emailed Pluv to see if I can post some info here for you guys.. and I got Crapped on because I couldn't post fast enough..
hence the reason why I didn't bother...
I already told you about Joecon. and "i didn't want to ruin your vacation" is kinda weak. I don't even remember you walking up to me and saying HI. (I did end up hanging with all the other people who helped me and said thank you)
final point.
I said I didn't care, because telling everyone that I am a bad person to deal with is completely moot, considering I now have noting to trade, sell, or money to buy anything. so I wont be dealing with anyone anyway.
I will pay you back.. I need more time, and time is what no one wants to give me...because Ive already had a lot of it.
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